I do like her. When we talk about neutral subjects (like anime and games and other geeky things) we have lots of fun. It's just really difficult and sad to see her stuck in a childish mindset while I get to grow up and think and function like an adult. I mean, I'm sure you've had friends and/or family members who have tested your patience (and even your love) by doing stupid things or behaving terribly. That's what this situation feels like to me. I still want to have a relationship with her because she's a good person and we've been friends for years. And I want to see her get better and learn to be independent. But seeing her act so irresponsibly while I'm trying my best to get work and move out of my parents' house again is frustrating.