Easy answer - no, no, and no again.
Scott has always been in love with Jean, end of story. Considering they couldn't add the Wolverine element to the comic love triangle that played out for much of the 90's, I'm sure that they were looking for ways to add that element to the series. However, it just seems wrong somehow. Kind of like the whole Cyclops/Emma Frost thing they have in the comics right now.
Just my two cents.....
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