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kiddiesunshine
12-26-2001, 12:24 AM
i work with 3 very pretty girls.
girl #1-madison
always wants to be around me for her lunch break.
wishes she could always work beside me
always stands close to me.
smiles when she sees me.
girl #2-emily
smiles when she sees me
also stands close to me alot
girl #3-jessica
smiles when she sees me
comes to talk to me before she leaves
touchy-feely
hugged me today out of the blue
likes all the anime i like, except ranma 1/2
--which one do you think has an interest in me? take note, jessica says she has a bf.

BourgeoisBuffoon
12-26-2001, 12:50 AM
Jessica sounds like a flirt, so she may not really want you...

...Emily may just be trying to be nice. I know girls like that.

...Madison probably wants to get to know you better. Talk to her! :D

kiddiesunshine
12-26-2001, 01:00 AM
thanks for your well-thought-out opinion (not sarcastic).

JustJack
12-26-2001, 01:08 AM
I know someone like Jessica..but she also thinks of me as her "big brother". So..that kinda ruins everything anyway. :p But, yeah...she's probably just flirtatious. Unless she comes up to you some day, & talks to you about "boyfriend troubles".

Emily just sounds like a nice person.

Madison sounds like she wants to get to know you better...so...let her! That is, if you like her, of course.

Batman 80
12-26-2001, 01:13 AM
Your a lucky man. i think Madison is the one you should go for. She sounds like she's interested in you.

Joe Tully
12-26-2001, 03:59 AM
First, I'd like to point out that we're just a bunch of goobers on the internet, and you're actually can see how the girls react to you and all, so I'd say that your own opinion is the best one.

I'd recommend not worrying about Jessica. Like the others said, if she has a boyfriend, then it is likely that she is just flirtatious. Unless she breaks up with her boyfriend and comes crying to you or something, it's probably unlikely that this'll work out. With the other two...hey, I have no clue, so go with your gut. A lot of the time it's hard to interpret women, so just go with your gut and try not to drive yourself crazy by over-analyzing things.

kiddiesunshine
12-26-2001, 09:09 AM
my gut...that usually doesn't work for me. so, i guess i can count emily out. as for jessica, maybe she gets something from me that she doesn't get from her man...maybe. and madison may be the one...oh, well. whatever happens, happens.

joker
12-26-2001, 10:12 AM
some problem you have, there's women who like you......

Psycho Fox
12-26-2001, 12:24 PM
Originally posted by kiddiesunshine
my gut...that usually doesn't work for me. so, i guess i can count emily out. as for jessica, maybe she gets something from me that she doesn't get from her man...maybe. and madison may be the one...oh, well. whatever happens, happens. I wouldn't count Emily out but Madison sounds like she is intrested in you thus it would be more logical to foucs your efforts on her. Unless Jessica starts crying on your shoulder about her man I think you can count her out.

Kylewayne
12-26-2001, 09:02 PM
I think you guys are right, Madison seems like a girl who wants to know you better. I also think that Emily is hinting the same thing. just go with your heart and you won,t go wrong.

The Guard
12-26-2001, 09:18 PM
I can't tell you what I think, because I'm WAY biased. But if they work with you...

DON'T GET INVOLVED.

kiddiesunshine
12-26-2001, 09:36 PM
well...ok. anyway, madison had her break with me again today. we watched some of jimmy neutron together...what if none of this means anything?!

Kylewayne
12-26-2001, 10:02 PM
Did it ever occur to you that they only like to hang out with you and nothing more. Just a thought.....and The Guard gave some good advice....DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK.....because if it goes sour you have to see them everyday whethere you want to or not.

Psycho Fox
12-26-2001, 10:03 PM
Originally posted by kiddiesunshine
madison had her break with me again today. we watched some of jimmy neutron together.. This seems like another clue that points to Madison having intrest in you

Psycho Fox
12-26-2001, 10:12 PM
Originally posted by kylewayne
Did it ever occur to you that they only like to hang out with you and nothing more. Just a thought.....It might be with Emily but Madison seems to show intrest. There is only one way to find out, try and date them
and The Guard gave some good advice....DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK.....because if it goes sour you have to see them everyday whethere you want to or not. I don't agree with you. Ignoring a person you could be happy with just becouse it could get messy seems sily if you are more worried about getting hurt then finding happiness then you will never find it

kiddiesunshine
12-26-2001, 11:10 PM
yeah! why would i avoid something because it might be bad, when everything has the potential to be bad?

Lodoss War Fan
12-27-2001, 12:36 AM
Man, your lucky you got girls that are interest in you . My lovelife lately is a blackhole of nothingness, all the girls I like are either in relationships or stuck up snobs :(

It seems that madison is into you, there's a good chance here with her dude :D

The Guard
12-27-2001, 12:36 AM
Did it ever occur to you that they only like to hang out with you and nothing more. Just a thought.....and The Guard gave some good advice....DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH PEOPLE YOU WORK.....because if it goes sour you have to see them everyday whethere you want to or not.

Especially when it can get VERY VERY bad. I don't know what kind of people they are, or you...but...stay out of work stuff. It's just a good rule to follow. On the other hand, if you don't ask one out until you quit...nevermind.

I guess you should make up your own mind. Madison DOES sound genuine, but girls are tricky. Oh well, that's life.

:)

I.R Joey
12-27-2001, 01:29 AM
Darn it don't talk like you have problems, with all these girls trying to get together with you. What about us unattatched people who have to make topics about what animated charecter we'd want for a signifigant other.

The Guard
12-27-2001, 01:32 AM
I kinda second that. There are chat rooms for this sort of thing. Before I put a major damper on things...go with your GUT. Even if it's wrong. It may work out, and it may not. But guts are usually right. Listen to their call...

Jimmy Kustes
12-27-2001, 01:41 AM
I don't agree with not dating at work. If you can't dip your pin in the company ink, where are you supposed to? I spend all my time at work.

The Guard
12-27-2001, 01:43 AM
Well...there ARE 6 billion people in the world...

Trent Lane
12-27-2001, 02:12 AM
Originally posted by kiddiesunshine
i work with 3 very pretty girls.
girl #1-madison
always wants to be around me for her lunch break.
wishes she could always work beside me
always stands close to me.
smiles when she sees me.

Go for it! I worked in this same situation and I can honestly say things are great, I've never been as happy before. Good Luck!!! And it can work with someone at work, I think it just depends on where exactly it is you work...

The Guard
12-27-2001, 02:14 AM
I'm gonna bow out on this. You go with whatever you want. But if I stay with this thread...it will lead to bad things. So good luck. Wish you the best.

Psycho Fox
12-27-2001, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by flhero311


Go for it! I worked in this same situation and I can honestly say things are great, I've never been as happy before. Good Luck!!! And it can work with someone at work, I think it just depends on where exactly it is you work... Yhea my parents were coworkers so I see nothing wrong with going out with coworkers.

kiddiesunshine
12-27-2001, 05:10 PM
ok, thanx. now, i won't bother y'all with my kind of problems.

Leaping Larry Jojo
12-28-2001, 05:34 PM
Originally posted by The Guard
Well...there ARE 6 billion people in the world...

Most of whom you won't have the chance or time to meet because you have to work full time, come home, sleep, eat, and get maybe only 1 or 2 days off a week.

If it's like some crap supermarket job (sorry about that), then it's most likely a kid like him will only be working there for a few months to a year.

Leaping Larry Jojo
12-28-2001, 05:38 PM
Originally posted by The Guard


I guess you should make up your own mind. Madison DOES sound genuine, but girls are tricky. Oh well, that's life.

:)

This is not some earth-shattering life affecting thing, though it could be. It doesn't matter if she's genuine or not, you don't know if you don't try. There's not much to lose--if it goes sour in the future, then move on. If it leads to something special, then good for him.

The Guard
12-28-2001, 06:40 PM
Most of whom you won't have the chance or time to meet because you have to work full time, come home, sleep, eat, and get maybe only 1 or 2 days off a week.

That was a joke...

If it's like some crap supermarket job (sorry about that), then it's most likely a kid like him will only be working there for a few months to a year.

Hey, don't apologize. Supermarket jobs are evil. Old people poke you with their canes when you're out of milk...

kiddiesunshine
12-28-2001, 08:02 PM
f.y.i., it's a movie theatre.

The Guard
12-28-2001, 08:04 PM
f.y.i., it's a movie theatre.

I think we guessed that.

DR. BELCH
12-29-2001, 01:46 PM
I see nothing wrong with it--though admittedly you're talking to a guy whose female coworkers were either married or homely, and is currently happily self-employed. ;)
It's girls in your church you shouldn't monkey with. I tried that once, and when it went bad in a few months it almost turned me against God forever. :mad:

kiddiesunshine
12-30-2001, 02:25 AM
it freaks me out to have girls i like treat me better than the others. and physical contact? how often do you get hugs from nice girls for nothing?
well, i have a plan, if they have pc's, to talk to them through email.

The Guard
12-30-2001, 02:27 AM
... :(

kiddiesunshine
12-30-2001, 02:43 PM
what is that supposed to mean?