The Jealous Ex...

[Trent Lane]

Okay, I had to see if anyone else has had this problem. I just started dating this girl last week. She was in the process of breaking up with her then boyfriend, and aside from still trying to get her stuff back, she's done with him. Now, he's pissed at me and keeps coming by and bothering me at work. Anyone else been in this situation? If so, what do you do, what DO you DO?!

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

If he looks dangerous and mentally unstable, I would ask you to seriously consider your future well being...

[Trent Lane]

Well, he's been a lot of hot air as of now. Today he came by with the usual threat- "She's already got a boyfriend"- then went on to say he'd be back for me at the end of my shift. He never showed, I guess mama wouldn't let him take the car. I guess I've got to talk to her and tell her she got to break off from him totally before he does something completely irrational to either of us. On the plus side, for her anyway, her Dad's a cop...

[RoboHobo]

You should remind him that your girlfriend's father is a COP! Also empty your pm mailbox dude!

[Trent Lane]

Will do... and done...:D

[killercroc]

Keep us updated!

[Nightflower]

Man, can I sympathize with ex's....well, maybe not to your extremities...

I've been going out with this guy for more than a year now. There's this girl who told me she went out with him "all summer" (before we started going out), and shared all this stuff with him and whatever. Truth: One date, no kiss. And she was the one who "broke up" with him.

Anyway, earlier this year, she told him that she "wanted him back". One, there's no front to her back, and two, what a dumb cluck. Since then, she'd flirt with him and stuff like that....really annoying. Plus lately she always glares at me and says stuff behind my back. Apparently I'm jealous because she "went out with him first". Jesus Christ.

Good luck dealing with your significant other's ex, fl.

[optimal321]

Well, i've never had, nor been an ex myself, and i've never been w/ someone who had an ex, so i can't really relate to that. But jealously, now that's something i've grown quite uccustomed to:rolleyes:. And it's never easy when someone you love doesn't want to be w/ you. Even if you're a big a-hole. But from the fact that he never came to "see you after work," then i'm pretty sure it's just the jealousy. I'd try to avoid him, if all possible, but he's probably not going to do anything. At least i hope not:p

[DR. BELCH]

I was involved with a woman who had a crazy abusive ex...fortunately he stayed out of her life, and I don't think he even met his daughter by her...funny thing was, the other guy who she was with before me turned out to be psycho too and turned vicious on her after we broke it off. To add to that I was involved with another girl at the same time I was with her, who had been there first, dropped out of my life, came back, and did the whole sulky jealous bit. The only thing worse than comparing your girl to your ex is comparing her to the present other woman...one I learned the hard way.
The next lass I get involved with will be fresh out of the box, n.b.k., no skeletons in the closet or psycho exes in her past. I can't handle two women at once again, or anything like Fhero or Nightflower's tales of terror.... :eek:

[Trent Lane]

Well, here's the deal. He somehow heard about us going out Friday night, and got totally pissed. He came in and just went off, like I said. I talked to my girlfriend today and she said he called her after all this. She wasn't too pleased with him and how he handled the whole thing. For the time being, I'm going to back off and let them settle their differences so we can all avoid a situation like this in the future, a mutual decision we made...